i’ve tried multiple times to reblog this from blair but it cuts off the text at the most important part. these are little tidbits that i often tell myself, but always forget to put into action. when, in actuality, i know that implementing them will greatly improve my happiness and quality of life. so, i’m going to look at this every day. and live it. and the idea is that by 1.1.12, i will simply need to tell myself: “life it short” and all of this will be implied. wear your white shirts. get them pressed. do not wait for special occasions. declare that your today is the special occasion. call instead of emailing. (it feels so good to connect.) quit. make ecstatic sex a priority. (this deliberateness will make you more creative, productive and generally gracious. on your death bed, you willthink about all the amazing sex you had this lifetime.) burn your to-do list. Write your book. make a point to be as encouraging as possible, as much as possible, to everyone possible. don’t look back. if you feel like you’re always failing, consider that this is part of being an artist. let it be a divine inclination. keep going. eat real food. often refuse to be in the presence of people who make you feel repressed, anxious, or pull your frequency down. do not entertain haters. send light to the haters. give it away. you probably don’t need it and someone else does. turn off the tv. let it be easy. burn candles. during the day. fall in love. with yourself. with the person you’re with. with the persons in your orbit. because life is short.
use your good dishes — everyday.
shave on weekends.
do not tuck your best away in the drawers, in the back of the closet, in your heart.
don’t wait for holidays or invitations.
go for coffee.
take care of it.
because no one is perfect, but you can let the love be perfect for the both of you.
because you can get there from here.